WOMEN - Real Dude Radio

Image showing two unclothed women embracing and about to kiss, with the caption “It wasn’t until I started having sex with women that I began to appreciate how different any two women’s bodies can be,and what a steep learning curve this must be for men”

The Real Dude Radio Podcast

A podcast for men about women, sex, psychology, and medicine. Begins during the week of March 20.

Man giving woman oral sex, with her hand behind his head.

When Giving Her Oral Sex…

“When you are giving me oral sex and I’m on the brink of orgasm, DO NOT vary your technique. Keep the same rhythm and speed. Please.” — female age 27

Image at the top showing a woman with her fingers in the front of her bikini underwear, and a man watching porn on his phone with his hand on his crotch, with the quote "There's never been a single credible study that shows masturbation is harmful to either men or women."

Masturbation Is Perfectly Safe and Healthy To Do Alone or With a Partner

Woman in teeshirt with the words "My Body MY RULES" across the front.

What Every Man (and Woman) Needs To Know About Consent

Consent in sex is massively important, yet it can be very confusing–especially because of the well-intended but often misleading slogans about it. This free chapter from the Guide To Getting It On is being used in college courses, and is one of the most helpful explanations about consent there is.

Click Here to for a free PDF of the chapter.

Click Here to download a free EPUB of the chapter that you can read on an ebook reader.

Things Men Don’t Know About Women’s Masturbation

Women’s masturbation can be more nuanced than men’s masturbation. This brief video explains some of the reasons why.

“Do Women Pee Through Their Vagina?”

In a gamer’s chat that included a number of adult males who have wives or girlfriends, a question was asked whether women pee through their vaginas. About 50% of the men said yes, and 50% said no. The pics in this slideshow should help clear that up.

WARNING: The following slideshow includes pics of an educational nature that are highly explicit, proving that education does not need to be boring!

Most Women Don’t Want Men to Come on Their Face. Here’s Why

In porn, women love getting facials. But in Real Life? Not so much. This video explains why.

Why Rear Entry Positions Are Uncomfortable for Some Women

Having a tipped uterus is normal, but it can make rear entry positions uncomfortable. This video shows why, and explains why so it’s important for couples to experiment and find which positions feel best for them.

The Ultimate Guide To The Clitoris

“I just watched The Ultimate Guide To The Clitoris and it’s totally fabulous. It is clear and practical. I will encourage many of my patients to watch this, and suggest that couples watch it together.” –Dr. Marty Klein, author of Sexual Intelligence, America’s War on Sex and His Porn, Her Pain.

A woman pulling up her shirt showing how one of her breasts is larger than the other.

A Woman’s Breasts Are Usually Not the Same Size

More than 90% of women have breasts that are different from each other in size, shape, or position on their chest. It’s usually the left breast that’s larger. In almost 25% of women, the larger breast is at least one cup size bigger than the other. This can make bra shopping an even bigger challenge than usual.

Over the course of a woman’s lifetime, her breast size will change up to six or seven times.

Close up of man's pelvis and mid section. He's undoing his pants, with a row of condoms with different sized and shaped heads in front of his pants.

Condom Sampler Packs

One of the best ways to get a condom that’s right for you and your partner is to try sampler packs. Here’s the most extensive list of condom sampler packs on the planet. Find a brand or two that work well for both of you, and stock up.

Condoms that are made from thinner material are as effective for disease prevention as condoms made from thicker material. An advantage of thinner condoms is you can get more sensation and more heat transfer from your partner’s body.

A woman unzipping a man's pants, with him handing her a condom.

Women Don’t Like the Way Condoms Feel Any More Than Men Do

We assume that men are the only ones who don’t like the way condoms feel. Maybe that’s because men aren’t shy about saying so, or because we never think to ask women.

So imagine my surprise at the groundswell of complaints I’ve received from women when I started asking this question on my sex survey: “Do condoms impact the sensation you receive from intercourse?”

I’ve now received hundreds of complaints from women about condoms.

Hand around a woman's neck with a "NO" symbol over the image.

Why You Should NEVER Choke a Partner During Sex!

The single most dangerous act that porn has helped popularize is the idea that women like to be choked during sex.

How Dangerous? As dangerous as a police chokehold.

How popular? According to a female reader who attends a major university: “Several male partners have choked me during sex, without asking!” In case you think she is exaggerating, consider these findings from a recent study of almost 5,000 undergraduates at a large university in the midwest:

“A majority of undergraduates in our sample have choked or been choked during sex…